Chattanooga, Tennessee holds dear memories for me. Around forty-five years ago, the parents of my friend, Helena, took me to Chattanooga for a fun time. Our goal was Rock City. If you have ever traveled in Eastern Tennessee, northern Georgia or anywhere near Chattanooga, you have seen the bird houses that are made like little red barns with their black roofs imploring you to "See Rock City." We were going to ride the Incline Railway to the top of Lookout Mountain and were going to "see Rock City."
I love my life-long friend, Helena but for two weeks that summer I loved her cousin Tommy. Besides the fact that he was much older and more experienced than we were, his explosions of humor made him a superhero.
That beautiful day in 1960 saw us roll out of the car onto the parking lot of the Incline Railway. Mr. Martin then spent a fortune on tickets and we found our seats on the trolly-like car. There are two cars hooked to one cable. As one car climbs, the other descends. We climbed. I was brave then, unlike last week when I took the same trip.
That day, like most days, Tommy kept us laughing too much to be afraid. I was more afraid a few days later when Tommy gave me my first kiss. There was only the one.
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| Very close to the top, the point at which in 2011 I closed my eyes. |
The romance was very short-lived. I was far too young for such a worldly man. That was alright, though. We worked much better as friends.
The incline was just the first of our adventures that week. We explored Rock City, a fairyland of stone paths, bridges and small rock buildings inhabited by gnomes and Disney characters.
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| Looking down at the plane from the overlook once we disembarked the Incline Railway car |
We went to the top of a mountain in Maggie Valley to watch cowboys shoot it out in the wild-west streets of
Ghost Town in the Sky.
Tommy was there as I rode the tired, sweaty horse along a trail. Along with Helena and Becky, he turned to watch as the horse lay down and rolled in the dust. Unlike Becky and Helena, Tommy was unsympathetic. He saw as it was a good opportunity to make jokes. It was funny once it became a memory.
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| Riding back down Lookout Mountain while gripping my seat in one hand, camera in the other |
Even the best of times end. There are times when we must quit laughing. Like many old friends, Facebook allowed Tommy and I to reconnect after forty years. He was still funny. Interestingly, he grew up to look like Robin Williams. He spoke fluent Spanish. It was while translating in South America that Tommy became the host to a powerful infection. It battled with his immune system until his body was overcome. First a hip replacement was needed then came the coma. Then he was gone.
I cried for my old friend who had become new.
He was no longer in pain.
Now the pain was with his friends and family.
He is missed.
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| View of the Heavens and the Earth through the roof of the Incline Railway car |
But the memories remain. All it takes is a quick trip up a very steep hill to remind me of cousins and friends; of childhood,
laughter and love.
My ride, last week took me further than merely to the top of Lookout Mountain. It took me back forty-five years to where I could remember a kiss, a laugh, a friend.













